Come home to the woman you’ve been missing & the life you’ve been longing for
The Pleasure You’ve Been Missing Pilgrimage
An experiential journey through the Seven Wonderlands, created to help you discover more of what makes you feel alive.
Perhaps this feels familiar…
Right now…
You know exactly what everyone else needs, but draw a blank when someone asks, “What do you want?”
You’d love to…
Know what you want instead of automatically saying, “I don’t mind” or deferring to others.
Right now…
You catch your reflection and automatically notice the bits you wish were younger, smaller or smoother.
You’d love to…
See a woman happy and at home in her body, rather than just a list of things to fix.
Right now…
You finally sit down to rest, only to think about everything you should be doing.
You’d love to…
Take an afternoon off and actually enjoy it, without feeling guilty.
Right now…
You remember being more playful, spontaneous or adventurous and wonder where that woman went.
You’d love to…
You wear the dress. Book the adventure. Do something simply because you want to.
Right now…
You love your partner but sometimes feel more like teammates running a household than lovers.
You’d love to…
You initiate the kiss. Ask for what you want. Feel more connected to yourself and the person you love.
Right now…
You feel like your sex drive has deserted you and wonder if that part of you is ever coming back.
You’d love to…
You feel a flicker of desire and follow it with curiosity.
Right now…
You have a quiet longing for more, even though your life looks pretty good from the outside.
You’d love to…
You feel unmistakably, deliciously alive in your own life.
“What surprised me most was how much pleasure I could draw from ordinary moments.”
The Pleasure You’ve Been Missing Pilgrimage
Your Pilgrimage. Your way.
A choose-your-own-adventure through the Seven Wonderlands of You.
The Seven Wonderlands are housed in a private online course, with short 2–7 minute teachings and simple invitations, rituals and practices designed to be experienced in your everyday life.
Explore your body, pleasure, desire, joy, connection and possibility through simple practices and experiences designed to be felt, not just understood.
Travel at your own pace, or journey with me over approximately 11 weeks in a Guided Pilgrimage.
Go from overgiving and aching for more to feeling sensually alive, confident, clear, connected and self-led.
Without another pile of coursework to complete or relying on someone else to tell you what you need. You are the expert on you.
“The Pleasure Pilgrimage offered a safe and gradual pathway for me to explore pleasure, sensuality, and sexuality. It became a treasure chest of discoveries, revealing parts of myself that had long been dormant and bringing a profound sense of freedom.”
The Seven Wonderlands of You™
There’s no one right way to feel alive. So I created seven different places to explore.
Homeland
Your body, nervous system & self-trust
Getting out of your head and into your body · breath & your nervous system · safety, grounding & listening to your body
Joyland
Pleasure, play & joy
Everyday pleasure · play & delight · beauty, awe & noticing what brings you joy
Femmeland
Your female body, cyclic nature & feminine wisdom
The female body & what you were never taught · sensuality, sexuality & pleasure · receiving, rest, arousal & menopause
Heartland
Your relationship with yourself
Self-love & compassion · acceptance & tenderness · how you relate to and care for yourself
Dreamland
Desire, imagination & possibility
What you want · dreams & fantasy · curiosity, imagination & expanding what feels possible
Loveland
Intimacy, communication & love
Love & intimacy · communication & vulnerability · boundaries & staying true to yourself in relationship
Sparkleland
Expression, freedom & aliveness
Courage & creativity · visibility & self-expression · revealing and celebrating more of who you are
What does the Pilgrimage actually look like?
Small lessons. Real-life experiments. No pile of homework.
Each Wonderland includes short teachings (2-7 min videos) and simple playful invitations & rituals woven into things you already do (tea, shower, commute, bedtime) to help you experience what you're exploring, rather than just learn about it.
You choose what you try.
Pause. Skip something. Come back to it. Follow what sparks your curiosity.
Choose the Guided Pilgrimage and you’ll also have:
Live Sanctuary Sessions: 60-minute Monday evening sessions to explore, practise and connect together. Can’t make it live? Watch the replay.
Orientation + Integration: Time at the beginning to get settled, plus dedicated Integration Weeks throughout the journey to pause, catch up and weave what you’re discovering into your life.
Ready to explore what makes you feel alive?
You don’t need to know exactly what you’re looking for.
Start with curiosity and see what you discover.
“I was able to deepen my relationship with myself in this Pilgrimage. I learnt how to say no without feeling guilty and have hard conversations without feeling overwhelmed and teary. My confidence is stronger in all areas of my life.”
Choose how you’ll travel
Expect private, indulgent, real-life guidance that pairs bite-sized body-wisdom lessons with woven-in rituals and practices, so you can stop starving yourself and start savouring life in all its fullness, every day. No partner required.
Choose the level of freedom, company and support that feels right for you.
Solo Traveller
Travel in your own time, your own way.
Enter all Seven Wonderlands and explore the complete Pilgrimage at your own pace.
✓ All Seven Wonderlands
✓ Short teachings, invitations & rituals
✓ Simple practices woven into everyday life
✓ Travel at your own pace
✓ No partner or group required
✓ Ongoing access while the Pilgrimage is available
Want company later?
You can upgrade to a future Guided Pilgrimage and travel with me and other pilgrims.
$498 AUD
Guided Pilgrimage
Travel together, with me as your guide.
Journey through the Seven Wonderlands alongside other women, with live guidance, private support and an in-person retreat with me.
✓ Everything in Solo Traveller
✓ Live Sanctuary Sessions + replays
✓ Orientation & Integration Weeks
✓ Shared connection and momentum
✓ 3 × 30-minute private sessions with Penny
✓ Radiant Reclamation Retreat
And when your journey ends…
Stay connected with the alumni community and return to future live Pilgrimage sessions at no additional cost.
$1,111 AUD
Next Guided Pilgrimage coming soon
Join the waitlist and I’ll let you know when the next journey opens..,
Private Expedition
Travel with me privately.
A more personal way to experience the Seven Wonderlands, with everything in the Guided Pilgrimage, plus additional private coaching and personalised support shaped around you, what you want to explore and where the journey takes you.
No two Private Expeditions are the same. Your journey may also include resources, practices and thoughtful surprises chosen especially for you.
From $1,998 AUD · By application
Included in the Guided Pilgrimage
Radiant Reclamation Day Retreat
A day for breath, beauty, and belonging.
Step out of everyday life and into a day of breath, movement, play, ritual, connection and sisterhood, with space to experience and celebrate the woman you’ve been meeting along the way.
Take a glimpse inside a previous Radiant Reclamation Day Retreat.
“It has been an absolute delight and joy. Lots of little bite-sized things to explore and experiment with… Today was the pinnacle. We were all absolutely nurtured, absolutely pampered and had a beautiful chance to get to know each other, let go of so much of the stuff and tap into some of the stuff that we’ve been learning. It is an amazing experience.”
Why I created the Pilgrimage
The Pilgrimage began with research. I interviewed women about what was getting in the way of living a life they loved. What they wanted to know and experience, how they wanted to feel, and what was stopping them.
I brought what I heard together with 20+ years creating community experiences, 8+ years holding spaces for women, my training in behavioural science, Somatic Sex Coaching, breathwork and coaching, and my own years of doing the work, stretching myself and noticing what helped me feel more alive, free and fully expressed.
Women told me they were busy. They didn’t want more homework, lectures or unfinished courses. They wanted something they could weave into real life. Some wanted to explore completely privately. Others wanted to share the experience, learn from other women and discover that they weren’t alone in their uniqueness.
They wanted the information they’d been missing, the feelings they were longing for, and the chance to rediscover parts of themselves that had gone quiet, or perhaps had never been explored.
So I built the Pilgrimage around what I heard.
Short teachings. Real-life experiments. Freedom to pause, skip or linger. Different ways to travel.
I’ll give you the map, open the doors and guide the way. You decide what you explore and what you take with you. What you discover will be entirely your own.
FAQs
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The Pleasure You’ve Been Missing Pilgrimage was created specifically for women who were assigned female at birth and identify as women. Some of the content explores the female body, anatomy, cyclicity, sexuality and menopause, and the Guided Pilgrimage includes spaces created specifically for women to learn and explore together.
Your relationship status doesn’t matter and you don’t need a partner to participate. Women of all sexual orientations are welcome. Some relationship and sexuality content specifically explores women’s relationships with men, drawing on research, training and experience. I’ve chosen not to cover relationship dynamics or experiences that fall outside my areas of knowledge and expertise.
You choose what feels relevant to you and what you leave behind.
You don’t need to have a particular relationship with your body, sexuality or femininity, and there’s no one way to be a woman here.
If you don’t identify this way but feel drawn to the themes of the Pilgrimage, I’d be very happy to explore working with you privately.
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Sexuality is part of the Pilgrimage, but so are body connection, rest, pleasure, play, desire, self-relationship, intimacy, expression, creativity and what makes you feel alive.
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I completely respect the personal and sometimes sensitive nature of what we explore. No one needs to know you’re doing the Pilgrimage.
If you choose Solo Traveller, you can explore the entire Pilgrimage completely privately, in your own time.
If you join a Guided Pilgrimage, you still choose what you share and what you keep to yourself. You’re welcome to use an alias online and limit the personal details or experiences you share with the group. Your private 1:1 sessions with me give you space to talk about anything you’d rather not explore with others.
There can be something powerful about learning alongside other women, hearing different experiences and discovering you’re not alone in yours. But you decide how you participate and what feels right for you.
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No. The bite-sized teachings are waiting for you in your private online portal, so you can explore them whenever it suits you.
If you choose the Guided Pilgrimage, our live Sanctuary Sessions and your private 1:1 sessions with me are held on Zoom. The Radiant Reclamation Retreat is an in-person day together.
Most of the actual Pilgrimage happens in your life, through the invitations, rituals and experiments you choose to try as you go about your everyday world.
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That’s completely fine. I record each Sanctuary Session and make the replay available in your portal within 24 hours.
During a Guided Pilgrimage, we also have a private online portal and WhatsApp group where you can ask questions, share discoveries and stay connected between sessions. I’m available there by voice message too, so missing a live session doesn’t mean missing the journey.
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You don’t need to pay for the Pilgrimage all at once. Payment plans are available, so you can spread the investment over several payments.
If the Pilgrimage itself isn’t affordable for you right now, there are still plenty of ways to explore this work with me for free. You can begin with Homeland, my free seven-day introduction to the first Wonderland, or listen to my podcast, where I explore many of the same themes through conversations, ideas and experiences.
Start where you are. There are ways to begin exploring what makes you feel alive without joining the full Pilgrimage right now.
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I’m confident that if you engage with the Pilgrimage, you’ll discover something of value. And sometimes you might need a little extra support to find what’s meaningful for you.
If you actively explore the first three Wonderlands and don’t feel you’ve experienced a shift, I’ll give you 2 × 20-minute private sessions with me at no additional cost. We’ll explore what’s coming up and how you can get more from your Pilgrimage.
Because you receive access to the complete Pilgrimage materials when you purchase, I don’t offer refunds for change of mind or because you decide not to continue. This doesn’t affect your rights under Australian Consumer Law.
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The Pilgrimage was designed for real, busy lives. Each Wonderland has around 6–8 mini lessons, mostly just 2–7 minutes long. They’re videos, so you can watch or simply listen, and you could get through the lesson content for a whole Wonderland in around 30 minutes.
Most of the invitations and practices can be woven into things you’re already doing, like having a shower, making tea, going for a walk or getting into bed.
There’s no expectation that you do everything. Choose what interests you, skip what doesn’t, linger where you want to and explore at your own pace.
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Firstly, there is no behind! Life happens. You might get busy, miss a week or discover that this isn’t the season you thought it was going to be.
You haven’t missed your chance. Your access to the Seven Wonderlands doesn’t expire while the Pilgrimage continues to be available, so you can pause and come back when you’re ready.
If you’re part of a Guided Pilgrimage and can’t make the live journey work this time, you’re welcome to return for the Sanctuary Sessions during a future Guided Pilgrimage, as many times as you like.
“I started from a place of feeling stuck in my habits, zero libido and the idea of a partner was making me physically sick. I didn’t know where or how to look for help. Then I found Penny.
She leads you through the program in fun, small steps that are an exploration of finding yourself, stripping away the negative and the lies, building confidence in the safety of your own body, which leads to liberation and a confidence that I’ve never had before.”
Ready to begin your Pilgrimage?
Choose the way you’d like to travel.
Still feeling into if this Pilgrimage is for you?
Maybe you’ve read this page nodding.
Maybe something made your stomach flip a little.
Maybe you can’t quite explain why you’re interested. You just keep thinking:
I want that.
Pay attention to that.
If you’re drawn to the Pilgrimage but you’re not sure whether Solo, Guided or Private is right for you, come and have a quick chat with me.
No pressure. Just a conversation.
Not ready for the full Pilgrimage?
Begin with Homeland.
Homeland is the first of the Seven Wonderlands and yours to explore free for 14 days. Spend seven days turning your attention towards yourself, your body and what makes you feel alive, with around ten minutes a day to explore.
Free access for 14 days.
