The Pleasure You’ve Been Missing Pilgrimage
Come home to the woman you’ve been missing and the life you’ve been longing for
A 12-week journey through the Seven Wonderlands of You.
Created for women ready to rediscover what lights them up, trust what their body is telling them and reimagine what’s possible in midlife.
Do you:
Know exactly what everyone else needs, but draw a blank when someone asks, “What do you want?”
Catch your reflection and automatically notice the bits you wish were younger, smaller, or smoother?
Finally sit down to rest, only to think about everything you should be doing?
Remember being more playful, spontaneous or adventurous and wonder where that woman went?
Love your partner but sometimes feel more like teammates running a household than lovers?
Feel like your sex drive has deserted you and wonder if that part of you is ever coming back?
Have a quiet longing for more, even though your life looks pretty good from the outside?
Would you like to:
Know what you want instead of automatically saying, “I don’t mind.”
Look in the mirror and see the whole woman, rather than a list of things to fix.
Take an afternoon off and actually enjoy it, without feeling guilty.
Feel a flicker of desire and follow it with curiosity.
Wear the dress. Book the adventure. Initiate the kiss. Say no without an explanation.
Feel like your body is a trusty friend giving you clues about what you need and desire, rather than a mean girl pointing out where you don’t measure up.
And feel unmistakably, deliciously alive in your own life.
Midlife is an invitation.
You’ve spent years loving, caring, working, achieving and becoming very good at noticing what everyone else needs.
Somewhere along the way, it can become surprisingly easy to lose touch with you. What you want. What feels good. What makes you laugh, tingle, dream, desire and come alive.
The Pleasure Pilgrimage turns your attention back towards these parts of yourself.
Because pleasure isn’t just for holidays, celebrations or the bedroom.
Pleasure is one of the ways your body’s intelligence communicates with you.
More of this. Less of that. This matters to me. This feels like me.
Learning to notice those clues can change the way you live.
Expect private, indulgent, real-life guidance that pairs bite-sized body-wisdom lessons with woven-in rituals and practices, so you can stop starving yourself and start savouring life in all its fullness, daily. No partner required.
A Pilgrimage through the Seven Wonderlands of You
A 12 week, experience designed for real life:
Short & potent: a series of short 2-7 min length body-wisdom mini-lessons in each Wonderland.
Woven-in: 3–7 min rituals attached to anchors you already have (tea, shower, commute, bedtime).
Live practice: one 60-minute Monday Night Sanctuary Session (or watch the replay).
An Orientation week & 4 Integration weeks to create spaciousness and time to weave the material into your life.
Choice, not pressure: from a menu of options - choose your own adventure.
Joy is the way: playful prompts threaded through every week to keep it fun and doable.
What’s included:
7 weeks of guidance - Bite-sized lessons, rituals, practices, playlists and invitations to explore.
Delivery & support - Regular 60-minute gatherings, replays, private portal and support throughout your journey.
Group sessions/coaching - Space to pause, revisit and go deeper, with group coaching woven through the experience.three 60-min (start/mid/end). ($333+ value)
Radiant Reclamation Retreat - An intimate in-person day retreat in Melbourne to bring everything you’ve explored to life.
Community - A private community for your journey plus 3 months of Wonder Women Club membership to use or gift.
Your Pilgrimage. Your pace. Your discoveries. With everything you need to explore along the way.
Radiant Reclamation Day Retreat
A day for breath, beauty, and belonging.
Step out of everyday life and into a day of breath, movement, play, ritual, connection and sisterhood, with space to experience and celebrate the woman you’ve been meeting along the way.
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Dates
Orientation Week: Monday 28 September 2026
Get settled, explore the portal and meet your fellow travellers.
Enter your first Wonderland: Monday 5 October 2026
Monday Night Sanctuary Sessions:
7.30–8.30pm AEDT via Zoom
Replays available within 24 hours.
5 October
12 October
19 October
2 November
9 November
23 November
30 November
Integration Weeks:
No Sanctuary Session 26 October, 16 November or 7 December.
Radiant Reclamation Retreat:
Inner Eastern Melbourne, Saturday 12 December
Love notes from previous adventurers
The Pleasure Pilgrimage offered a safe and gradual pathway for me to explore pleasure, sensuality, and sexuality. It became a treasure chest of discoveries - revealing parts of myself that had long been dormant and bringing a profound sense of freedom.
What surprised me most was how much pleasure I could draw from ordinary moments. A simple task or daily ritual can now feel rich and magical, rather than something to rush through.
The journey was thoughtfully paced, practical, and deeply empowering. Every detail felt intentional, and the in-person retreat was a beautiful culmination - nourishing, connective, and full of sisterhood. I’m deeply grateful for the care Penny brings to this work.”
The Pleasure You’ve Been Missing Pilgrimage (participant) 2025
I was tentative when I began, but I knew I needed this. What I found was a respectful, nourishing space where I could explore pleasure and connection at my own pace.
The Pilgrimage helped me build more trust in myself and in other women, and to reflect on how I give and receive - both internally and in my relationships.
I’m taking forward a deeper commitment to peace, joy, and adventure, and letting radiance rise while duty falls away. I’m very grateful for this experience.
The Pleasure You’ve Been Missing Pilgrimage (participant) 2025
I started from a place of feeling stuck in my habits, zero libido and the idea of a partner was making me physically sick. I didn’t know where or how to look for help. Then I found Penny. She leads you through the program in fun small steps that are an exploration of finding yourself, stripping away the negative and the lies, building confidence in the safety of your own body, which leads to liberation and a confidence that I’ve never had before. The space that Penny holds for each person feels so safe and secure that I couldn’t help but let go of all that was holding me back.”
The Pleasure You’ve Been Missing Pilgrimage (participant) 2026
Oh, what a great experience, it took a while to surrender and relax, but all the women were so open, forthcoming, trusting honest. I've been guided and offered tools to allow me to trust myself, love myself and fellow humans, especially women. It was truly amazing, it left me on a natural high, buzzing and smiling inside and out.”
Pleasure You’ve Been Missing Pilgrimage Participant (reflecting on the Pilgrimage and retreat) 2026
Three ways to travel
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Solo Traveller
Take the map and make it yours.
Explore the Seven Wonderlands entirely on your own, self paced, with full access to the lessons, rituals, practices and invitations. There’s no live sessions, community or personal support.
Return to the material whenever you like, for as long as it remains available.
Want company later? There’s the option to upgrade to the Guided Pilgrimage and join a future live journey.
$495 AUD
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Guided Pilgrimage
Enjoy the journey with sisters
The complete Pilgrimage experience, with Seven Wonderlands, live online group sessions, 1:1 support, a sisterhood of current and past pilgrims, and a luxurious one-day retreat.
Return to the material whenever you like, for as long as it remains available.
Stay connected in the alumni community and return to join the live group sessions on future Pilgrimages at no additional cost.
$1,111 pay in full
or 2 × $585
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Private Expedition
Your journey, designed around you.
The first-class experience, with the richness of the Guided Pilgrimage plus additional private coaching, personalised support and thoughtful surprises chosen especially for your journey.
Individually designed and priced.
FAQs
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First, I fully respect and appreciate the sensitive nature of this material and your privacy. No one needs know you are doing it! You can choose to do this solo and not engage in the group opportunities, you can also choose to show up with with an alias, limiting what you share of your personal details, experiences or anything you don’t feel comfortable with us. We have private 1:1 calls to talk through your personal situation. It is your choice, although I encourage you to consider there are lots of benefits from being with women on the same journey, the opportunity to learn from each other, get support and inspiration, and practice being vulnerable and in action with a loving, aligned group who are also on the journey with you!
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I’ll record all Tuesday Sanctuary sessions and make them available to you within 24 hours of the session. There is a What’s app group and I’m available via voice message so you can always ask questions and seek clarification if there’s anything that is not clear or you’d like to contribute.
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The bite sized lessons will be avialable to watch back online in your own time. The Wednesday Walkthroughs will be on zoom. Where possible, I’m happy to coordinate dates and times to ensure people can get together if this day and time doesn’t work for the group.
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Yes I will, altough this is a beta version of the experience so it will never again be at this introductory price. As a Founding participant, you’ll be able to a re-run in future pilgrimages. If you have any questions, I’m happy to talk with you to explore your options to make sure this is the right fit for you.
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Yes! I’m very happy to work out an arrangement that will support you and allow you to participate.
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If you actively participate through Week 3 and don’t feel a shift, I’ll add in 2 x 20min 1:1 to support you. This is a beta experience and when you put in 100% I’m confident you will get the value you put in.
I’m Penny, your midlife guide
I believe life is precious. Too precious to keep waiting to feel fully alive.
That our best years are behind us and wanting more is somehow greedy, unrealistic or too late. So we make do with the crumbs and tell ourselves we should be grateful.
Meanwhile, we’re starving.
I create spaces where women feel safe enough to be honest, brave enough to explore and free enough to be fully themselves. To listen to their bodies, trust their own knowing and rediscover the parts of themselves they’ve quietened or forgotten.
Midlife isn’t too late. It’s an invitation to reimagine what’s possible.
I’ll give you the map, open the doors and guide the way. What you discover will be entirely your own.
Still feeling into if this Pilgrimage is for you?
Maybe you’ve read this page nodding.
Maybe something made your stomach flip a little.
Maybe you can’t quite explain why you’re interested. You just keep thinking:
I want that.
Pay attention to that.
If you’d like to talk about whether the Solo, Guided or Private journey is right for you, I’d love to chat.
No pressure. Just a conversation.
