Do midlife differently.
Find your sparkle. Feel alive.
I believe…
Your life is precious. Now’s the time to experience it, fully.
You’re worthy of a feast.
No more sustaining yourself with the crumbs left over after everything and everyone else has been fed.
Your body is on your team.
It’s not broken. It’s communicating with you.
Pleasure is the missing ingredient.
It’s fuel for living. Joy, desire, connection, curiosity and play aren’t frivolous extras. They’re essential to helping you meet life as it is.
What are you looking for?
I want to feel more like me again.
I’m tired of coming last. I want time and space for myself, but I’m not even sure what I want anymore.
I want to feel good in my body again.
My body is changing and I don’t always recognise or understand it. I miss feeling sexy, desired and alive.
I want deeper connection and more fun.
I want to feel appreciated and valued, have conversations that go beyond the surface, and bring more fun and new experiences into my life. I want to feel free to be myself.
I guide you to:
Choose yourself
Make space for yourself, discover what you want and start giving your own needs, desires and dreams a place in your life.
Befriend your body
Learn to listen to its signals, reconnect with sensation and pleasure, and feel more alive in the body you have now
Connect in new ways
Explore deeper conversations, new ways of relating and experiences that invite you to show up more fully as yourself.
Experience it for yourself.
My work isn’t something I want you to simply learn about. It’s designed to be felt, explored and experienced by you.
Choose the experience that meets you where you are.
The Pleasure You’ve Been Missing Pilgrimage
An online, experiential journey through seven imaginary Wonderlands, exposing you to new ideas, experiences and possibilities for pleasure, connection, joy and aliveness, so you can discover what you want to weave into your everyday life.
Pleasure is your compass. You choose how you travel, and the pace that feels right for you.
I want a taste
Begin with Homeland, a free 7-day self-guided experience through the first of the Seven Wonderlands.
I’m ready to dive in
Travel at your own pace, or join the waitlist for the next live Guided Pilgrimage.
Wonder Women Club
A community for women who want deeper connection, new experiences and more fun in their lives.
Come as you are. Have conversations that go beyond the surface, experience different ways of connecting, and try things you might never have thought to try on your own.
Choose what calls to you. Come to as much or as little as you like.
I want a taste
See how you can experience the Club before you commit.
I’m ready to join
Choose the membership that suits you and become a part of this very special community
Private work with me
A confidential, judgement-free space for the things you don’t always know where else to take.
Your body. Sex and desire. Relationships. Ageing. Confidence. A pattern you keep meeting. Something that feels tender, hidden or even taboo. Or simply questions you’ve never felt comfortable asking.
You’ll be met with curiosity, respect and without judgement.
Our work is shaped around you, drawing from coaching, Somatic Sex Coaching, breathwork and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) to support whatever you want to explore.
You don’t need to have it all figured out before we begin.
I’m curious
Learn more about private work and the ways I can support you.
I’m ready to work with you
Complete a short application. If we’re a good fit, I’ll invite you to a complimentary 15-minute conversation.
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Hi, I’m Penny.
I’m endlessly curious about what helps us feel more alive.
My work sits somewhere between the conversations we rarely have, the experiences we don’t always give ourselves permission to try, and the parts of ourselves we can lose touch with along the way.
I’m a Pleasure Activist, Midlife Guide, Women’s Wisdom Champion and Community Creatrix. I create spaces for women to explore their bodies, desires, relationships, edges and what they want next.
My training spans psychology, social impact, somatic sex coaching, NLP, breathwork and end-of-life work. It’s shaped my belief that how we live matters - how we treat our bodies, how we relate to each other, who gets access to the experiences we create, and how consciously we inhabit and care for the world around us.
I don’t believe there’s one version of a life well lived, or one way a woman should do midlife.
Your life is Precious. I want to see you experience it in the way that feels fully yours.
In their own words.
“Penny creates events, spaces, and experiences that give you permission to explore different sides of yourself.”
— Gemma
“I love your very clear dedication to your work and the person (me) in front of you… I feel so seen.”
— Private client
“After each event I bask in the fullness of connecting with incredibly authentic women.”
— Jenny
Ready to do midlife differently?
Wear the sparkles. Ask the question. Say the thing. Try something you never imagined you would. Surprise yourself.
There’s more of you, and more of life, to experience.